It is finally revealed to me that whatever that comes out from me is considered negative...
The revelation is that... I'm in fact not the negative one, but it's people who are negative who thinks that I'm being negative...
I agree that I tend to look at the situation from the worst possible scenario first... But I think that's just working from another angle...
People pass comments all the time... whether in jest or being critical...
But that's just what people do... passing a comment... Based on their own perspection of the world... like what make sense to them and what doesn't.
People pass comments when they see something that is not in sync with what is sensible to them or what that challenges their believes...
So isn't telling them to be nice in itself passing a comment that they are not being nice when they all they did was to tell you what they think...??
